As I studied the Owasco, New York State Census of 1865 I saw some familiar names near James and Maria. For instance there was Michael Coleman with his family which included an elderly gentleman named Michael McGarr. Next to him in the census was the Daniel McGarr family on a sizable farm. Coincidentally, Maria McGarr was the daughter of a Daniel McGarr, but it wasn't this Daniel. This Daniel McGarr in Owasco married Anastasia Lyons in Castledermot, very near Ballyraggan, and their first child was born in James' townland, Ricketstown, right next to Ballyraggan. I am content to call Owasco Daniel a probable cousin of Maria's father since they were roughly the same age. Heaven knows how the Irish loved their naming pattern, and it's quite possible the two Daniels have a grandfather or uncle Daniel in common.
Having found Maria's father Daniel in Griffith's Valuation of Ballyraggan 1851, (misspelled McGare), I also found Michael Coleman living there. Also in the townland were the Tallon family, a daughter of which just happened to be a witness at James and Maria's wedding. Other names like Lawlor and Kinsella also show up in marriage and baptismal records in Auburn.
Looking at the family right next to James and Maria I found Thomas and Mary Shea. That name also rang a bell. Looking through my records I found Thomas was the godfather of one of James and Maria's sons. What was the connection, why was he chosen? After re-reading the Auburn parish records I discovered the answer... the marriage of Thomas Shea and Mary O'Hora!
Mary O'Hora Shea was the daughter of James' older brother John who was the first of the O'Horas to emigrate. He came to America along with his wife Catherine McGarr, a sister of Maria, and their infant daughter Mary.
